How To Impress A Girl

You can be sure if you are a boy that at some point in your life you’re going to want to learn how to impress a girl. It’s not an easy project, and there are many guys who have gone their entire lives without having even the first clue of how to make an impression on a girl.  The problem could be they are just possibly looking a little too hard.  Learning the art of  impressing a girl can be done, but it does mean that you will need to change the way you think about some things for a little while.

Guys are known to like competing with each other.  In addition to competitive sports, the male gender is also able to turn just about anything into some kind of contest.  There are milk-drinking competitions, hot dog eating contests,  and all sorts of other strange challenges.  Some fellows think that the best way to have a positive affect on girls is to show off somehow, either by showing how much they know about a certain topic or with some moronic feats of strength.  But, it turns out -- the girls aren’t moved at all. 

What Can You Do To Impress A Girl

So how do you learn how to impress a girl?  Well, while the boys were off beating each other up on the playground in elementary school, the girls were probably talking to each other.  Girls seem to enjoy talking.  Not only do they like to talk, they also enjoy listening, and they like it when other people listen too.  Especially boys. 

One of the best things you can do to impress a girl is to be able to carry on a mature, intelligent conversation with her.  It doesn’t have to be about cold fusion or advanced calculus, but certain types of jokes probably aren’t such a great idea.  It’s important to ask questions, and  here’s the important part, pay attention to what she has to say.  Be interested in what she likes and who she is and she’ll start to pay a lot of attention to you.  You’ll come off as a guy who isn’t a jerk, who isn’t trying to impress her, and who she can relate to.  These are all very good things.

When dealing with the issue of how to impress a girl, some people will say that chivalry is the way to go.  Open doors for her, carry her books, and act like a true gentleman.  Chivalry can be dangerous though, as many girls (especially those with a feminist bent) will see chivalry as an affront, so be careful.  Getting involved in a good conversation may not be the flashiest way to get a girl’s attention, but it has a great chance of working.